Mariella Blog #1
What aspects of
Communication interest me the most? This is a good questions for me, because I
have many years working the Industry of communication as a Bilingual
Anchor/Reporter. In my 15 years, I have
experience many forms of communication, according to the chapter number one,
the five mains forms of communications are: intrapersonal,
interpersonal, group, public, and mass communication. In this blog I will share
some of my experiences with some forms of communication and what aspect of
communication interest me the most. Also you will have the opportunity to know
a little bit more about me.
Working as a journalist
and producer for a Local TV station (Mundomax Channel 38.1) and Newspapers (Spanish
Journal) make interact with a diversity of group and people, and I have to learn
how to communicate with them according to the topics that we need to cover.
Also as a Television and Video production instructor in a Local technical
college (MATC) I have to be in front of a group of 15 or 30 students.
I was always afraid to talk to a large or
small group of people but because of my career choice, I’m exposed to interact
and communicate with a lot of people every day, from all ages and different
ethics backgrounds, and professional and social levels.
I also Notice that with family
and close friends I normally interact different, I can be more open about my
feelings according to the situations. Also I notice that with my mom or dad I
have to think twice about anything I say or share with them. . The way I speak and present to others is different
at work, school or any place I go. I feel like we all do that in our lives. I
consider myself a very friendly person, nice and caring person, always open to
make new friends. I also like to listen
to others and help if they need me. I always offer my support and friendship to
others. This can be good and bad at the same time. Because sometimes I have
experience that people only take advantage of my friendship.
I consider myself a busy person, I always have
something to do every day. I always try
to find quiet time for myself and is very difficult to find “ME time”. I go to work, school, and also I’m a mom of two
lovely kids, a 9 and a 6years old. On
week days I go to work, and to college, and also I have to take care of my kids,
and do activities with them. On weekends I have to I do a Radio Show in the
morning, sometimes I feel like I need more sleep, but I have the responsibility
to do my segment; at the same time is a
great experience for me to do radio because is another form of communication.
The one aspect of
communication that I feel I need to experience more is Intrapersonal. Why?
Because I feel like I need to learn how to focus on myself, I need time for
myself to talk to myself, listen to myself and understand myself. I need to
think more about myself. I feel that I have
to find time to listen my favorite music, read my favorite book or magazines or
do anything that I like, I wish to have the time to write in my journal
everything that I feel, my emotions. One of my biggest dreams is to learn to
mediate and do yoga. Also I’m a great dancer, I want to find the time to be
part of a dance group, and I feel like this will help me to more mindful about
my everyday life. I always hear good stories about people doing things by them
self like walking or running, it seems like is very easy to mediate for other
but not for me. Interpersonal communication will help me with my reflective
thinking, it will help me to make better choices.
My professional’s goals are to be: a news director, fulltime Television and Video
Productions Instructor, Spanish and/or GED teacher. I have many choices in my professional career.
Returning to college is very challenging
but is helping me to make better choices and also to feel more confident about
by self. Being an ESL Student is hard, and difficult, because many people criticize
me and made feel that I’m not good enough. I have been discriminated and many opportunities
have been taken away from me because “they said: I have an accent.” Thanks God,
many others believe in me and gave opportunities, also I will never give up. I
have proven to others “they were wrong”. I have cried a lot because of that. I’m
belong to a minority, I’m Hispanic US Citizen Woman, move to my country USA 20
years ago, I’m Bilingual. I have a lot
to offer to my community, and to myself. Returning to college with a Major in Professionals
communication is a dream come true for me, with a minor in Spanish Language
cultures and Elective studies, I know is a big challenge but I feel confident
that I have made a good choice in my life and career.
I like how you added what form of communication you need to experience more. You picked intrapersonal. I think reflectively writing it out will help you to actually start to doing just that; taking time for you to communicate with you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Paulette, yes, I agree with you expressing my feeling in paper, taking the time to communicate with my self, being mindful about me. I already did the 1st step I purchased a journal and some color pencils.
DeleteThanks Paulette, yes, I agree with you expressing my feeling in paper, taking the time to communicate with my self, being mindful about me. I already did the 1st step I purchased a journal and some color pencils.
DeleteIf you hadn't said, I wouldn't have known you were a reporter, and it's so cool that you are. I agree with having to filter depending on who you are talking to because I tend to do the same thing. It's what happens, overall very good post.
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